4 Of The Best Gift Ideas For A Dressy Young Girl

Do you have a little sister, daughter or niece whose big day is coming up? Is she very modish? Is she like other children who are very much into fashion? If you are seeking the absolute gift for a fashionable young girl, here are a couple of ideas:

A Nice Pair Of Shoes
Children love shoes. The best shoes for young girls are ballerina flats, sandals, patent leather shoes and pink shoes with bows and rhinestones. If you are purchasing a pair of shoes for a young girl, you must know her shoe size and her favorite color. These information can help you find the right choices. After purchasing the shoes, you may want to include a nice pair of socks to match the shoes. White is the most popular and it complements well with various shoe styles. Also, understand the store's policy as to replacement and returning of the items. So that if the shoes doesn't fit, you can just return with your young girl and have her fit the shoes in the store.

Garments
Clothes are definitive gifts for chic young girls. Today, the assortment of garments for young girls are extensive. So many choices as well - from summer apparel to everyday dresses. Again, be certain that you know the girl's favorite color. Also, know what size she fits in. Is she small, medium or large? If you can bring an old getup that still fits her the next time you shop, you can use the dress as a guide.

Moreover, understanding the girl's personality will save time in looking for attire. Most girls love floral dresses, pullovers and hoodies. If you can ask her to point out the clothes that she likes in online magazines, then better. By looking at her choices, you will know if she likes skirts, denims or shorts. Another tip is to ask her about her favorite shows and characters. Knowing her most wanted cartoon character or tv personality may be of great help. Like most American girls, there are girls who are big fans of Miley Cyrus. There are several jackets, shirts and denims with Miley Cyrus prints on them. You can even personalize your gift and find a Hannah Montana jacket or you can buy her the same jacket that Hannah is wearing on her shows.

Frills
Frills are huge deals with girls. They love to brag their multicolored ornaments and cute charm bracelets to their friends. Another accessory that girls are very attracted to are bags. Tote bags are very in today. They come in a wide array of styles and colors. The most common colors are pink, purple and amber.

Hair Pieces
Hair pieces are very modish especially for young girls. They come in all sorts of styles and hues. The most popular hair accessories are head bands and clips. Hair bows and ribbons are also very chic. Even celebrities wear them. Remember that media has a big influence with the way people dress. And we see on tv that even celebrities love to wear these multicolored hair accessories. If you are clueless about the latest in hair accessories get idea from the stars and celebs and definitely you'll find the absolute piece for your darling little girl.

Giving gifts shows how much you care for a person. It is not just the object but the care and love that you invest in just to find the absolute gift. If you are seeking a good gift to give to a classy girl and you are still clueless, consider the things above and you will never go wrong.

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Big buttocks in scientists's eyes. Amazing results.

It has long been known that the accumulation of fat (lipopexia) in the abdomen and body sides is to increase the risk of diabetes and cardiovascular disease. But if you have fat on the thighs and buttocks - it's just good!

In some cultures, the plump buttocks is a sign of health and beauty. American scientists found, this is actually true.

Unbelievable, but a woman with big booty has better chance to live a long life. Studies have shown that fat in the hips and buttocks reduces the likelihood of developing heart disease. The accumulation of fat in this part of body occurs due to an increase of the number of fat cells, but not their size, as in the abdomen. Therefore, if the fat is accumulated on the pop, it is not accumulated in the blood vessels and internal organs.

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Women's Organization FEMEN showed, what will happen to sex tourists in Ukraine.

In the Ukraine, they came up with a rather interesting way to show the world that country is not a mecca of sex tourism. It's no secret that, according to many polls, the most beautiful girls on this planet are living in Ukraine. This fact influenced the fact that the country is one of the most popular among the so-called sex tourists. Moreover, in some countries even have been raffled special sex tours to Ukraine. In New Zealand, in the live broadcast of radio station "The Rock FM" there was a ticket to sex tour in Ukraine given one businessman named Greg Morgan.


Upon learning of this blatant fact Ukrainian women's organization FEMEN has developed and published the special poster that was distributed by one traveler in New Zealands Auckland. The poster shows a sexy Ukrainian woman with bare chest, which holds a sickle with the flowing blood on it in one hand and in another - man's testicles are cut off...! Would sex tourists like to go to Ukraine after viewing this poster?

By the way, the Ukrainian organization Femen often holds the protest in which the participants attempt to defend their rights by bare chest. Quite often FEMEN argues against Putin and Russian politicians. Below a few photos of FEMEN.

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Every Rejection Is A Brick In My Palace

When I was 16 years old, I had the biggest crush on this girl at school. She wasn’t the most attractive girl, but there was a certain something about her that just made her so desirable. She was different and she knew it, this only caused her to be more desirable.

For the better part of two years I devised a plan to secure her as my girlfriend. My first step was to befriend her, every chance I got I would hang out with her. I’d buy her food, take her out to music events, I even took her to see an expensive hockey game. We’d spend hours alone together at her house watching movies, playing pool and just lounging around on her bed.

Throughout it all she’d see other guys, telling me all about the dates that she’d have with them. I listened intently and gave words of encouragement; all the while every word she said ate me up inside.

This pattern repeated itself until one day I finally decided to pop the question. One night while we were alone I turned to her and let all of the emotions that I had for her run free. I told her about how I felt and how life could be if the two of us were together. After several minutes of silence she broke the news to me. She only saw me as a friend and nothing else, needless to say I was heart broken.

After that night I never spoke to her again. I distanced myself from her and her friends and avoided her whenever I possibly could. I went out and met new girls, but the memory of her and the times we spent together continued to invade my dreams and my thoughts.

Throughout it all I never once kissed her, never hugged her, I never even held her hand. Looking back on it now my thoughts and actions could best be described as irrational, almost borderline insane. Somehow in my mind I had built her up to be my girlfriend even though we failed to share any sexual or romantic connection.

Since then I’ve met numerous men who have had similar experiences with women. Some have rebounded and some still live in their delusional relationships of years past. Upon further research I found that all of the men who had rebounded shared something in common, they not only accepted their defeat and their mistakes, but they relished in them. Their defeat didn’t define them, but it served as a warning sign, a life lesson that reminded them to never make the same mistake again.

In the game there’s an expression, “Every rejection is a brick in my palace.” It’s something that I hold near and dear and I use it as almost a creed. Regardless of how good you are with women, you’re bound to face a rejection every now and then. The question is how will you let this rejection affect you? Will it make you a bitter and angry person, or will it help you improve yourself and the way you interact with others?

At the end of the day attraction is not a choice. Women are pre hardwired with attraction in mind; it’s up to us as men to target these attraction mechanisms in order to create a relationship or a mutual attraction.

If a relationship failed to materialize, then chances are you did something wrong. You didn’t cater to her needs or you left out a critical step in the attraction process. The good news is that your mistakes of the past can be corrected. You can learn from your rejection and ensure that you never fall into the same trap again.

You can affect life, or you can let life affect you. The choice is yours.

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Seven Things I Never Knew About French Kissing

by: clsfd kidd

Things I learned about French kissing.
I come from a very strict religious community. This community frowns on worldly pursuits such as getting laid and focuses on the more eternal goals, like killing Ragnaros. This community I come from is called by many names, but is easily identified by the racist slang, "The Geeks".

As an upstanding member of the Geek community, I never really had the opportunity to kiss anyone remotely attractive, and simply accepted the possibility that I may spend the rest of my life ogling females and considering suicide.

That was until a few nights ago. A party hosted by a heathen non-geek was in the neighborhood, and since I had done homework for the host, I was invited. It was kind of strange to go a party that was not centered around destroying evil, but actually participating in it.

Anyway, to get on with the anticipated list of seven things I never knew about French Kissing...

Foreplay is Awesome, Even for a Guy
I spent around three hours talking and slow-dancing with an amazing woman. The 30-second-rule about men is not completely true. I can imagine how badly it would have gone if I had come on too fast, but the way it was, I was actually going too slow for her, so she was actually jumping MY bones. A better complement cannot be asked for.

Women are Not Made of Steel, Stone, or Plastic
This is a little hard to explain to someone who has not been pressed up against a living, female body. Women are just as bony, squishy, and sweaty as men are. For someone who has spent their entire life seeing women on computer screens or magazine pictures, that person cannot properly imagine what a real woman is like.

Women are Short
Really short. They are like little Halflings. Or cute dwarfs. Really, I had no idea what to do with someone who was that close to the floor all the time. When you are slow dancing with a short person, it can be a little awkward. The really only good place to put her head while you are dancing is to rest it against your chest, because there is no way on earth that you can put it on your shoulder, even if you squat down.

A Muscular Chest Goes an Incredibly Long Way
No, pecs are not only for wrestlers, gays, and gay wrestlers. Pecs are not so you can look nice in a tight shirt. I never knew this before, but when a woman rests her head on your chest, you will know with an unshakable knowledge what pecs are for. And you will be unbelievably glad you went to that really gay gym. You will either thank God or become very religious when this happens.

Women's Noses Are a Lot Longer Than They Look
When you feel something with your face, you get a lot more information in your brain than you would just by looking at it. So when you put your face up against the face of another person, you can learn things that nobody else could know unless they did it, too. And one of those things, is your dancing partner's nose is actually pressing up against your cheekbone. And on a side note, when you are this close to someone, you can sync with their breathing. This sensation can only be described as gorgeous.

Kisses Are Not the Sloppy, Grandmother Things You Hated as a Child
The mouth is the most sensitive place on your body. This is why children always put everything in their mouths when they want to learn about it. There is a massive, massive array of nerve endings in and around your mouth. Placing your lips on another pair of lips is a very nice feeling. But, OH MAN! The TONGUE! There is so much information being poured into your brain when you French kiss that you will either experience a cardiac arrest, or permanently and instantly lose 25 IQ points. You will feel every taste bud, every pore of that woman's mouth. And, OH MAN, she's moving her tongue!

She's moving the...

I think that the...

Oh please, just let...

Uh, whoa.

That was really something else. Did I just black out there?

Wow.


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Women Are Born To Shop.

Men who hate trawling the shopping centres now have the perfect excuse to stay at home.

Experts have found women are much better than men at finding their way around stores and locating products.

They excel at remembering the location of fruit, vegetables and high-calorie treats.

The researchers say the phenomenon has its roots deep in evolution, in the activities of our forebears.

While men developed the acute sense of direction needed for hunting, women mastered the art of gathering food such as fruits and berries.

According to the University of California researchers, these traits have been passed down, meaning men are better at reading maps while women are stars at shopping.

To test their theory, they sent 86 men and women on a trip around a farmers' market.

Each was given a list of stalls to visit and foods to sample.

They were then asked how much they had liked the foods and to map out the locations of the stalls they had visited.

The women were much more accurate in remembering the stalls' positions.

Further analysis revealed that their memories were influenced not by how much they liked the foods but by the number of calories they contained.

Foods with a high calorie count, such as almonds, olive oil and honey, were remembered better than vegetables and other foods which provide less energy for their size.

Writing in the journal Proceedings of the Royal Society B, the res-earchers said this is further evidence of an evolutionary origin, as our ancestors would have needed to memorise the location of the foods that would give the most energy.

They said: "The finding that nutritional quality enhances spatial memory further supports the idea that our task is engaging a foraging-related spatial adaptation."

Men, they said, tend to be better at map-reading - a skill honed through 'pursuing mobile prey over erratic and unpredictable courses'.

British research published this week used our hunter-gatherer ancestors to explain women's preference for pink.

The Newcastle University psychologists said it was likely women honed an ability to pick out the colours when foraging for ripe fruits.

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How To Get Girls To Like You Or How To Identify Your Sticking Point With Girls

Let’s be real: you read this because you want to get more girls - of course, that’s what every guy wants. But more importantly you read this because you are not that good with girls. And you want to improve yourself. The thing is: In order to improve yourself, you need to know what to improve:

Maybe you are shy, maybe you have some nervous ticks speaking with women, maybe you play the funny guy to smooth over your insecurity. Or maybe your mind simply goes blank facing a beautiful girl. Maybe you don’t care about grooming and looks. Maybe you endlessly search for the right moment to kiss the girl or don’t use touching at all and always end up in the friends zone. There are many areas you can have difficulties in.


So, first you have to identify your problem, your sticking point with women. Here is what you can do to find out where your problem with girls might be:

1) Think about the past situations with women and what went wrong. Try to see the whole situation from her perspective – would you like this guy and would you think this guy has got girls in his life? If the answer is “no” – why? Compare yourself with successful guys – what do they do and you don’t?

2) Ask your friends and try to get an honest answer on how they see you interacting with women. Let them speak, don’t interrupt and don’t search for any excuses. Accept what they say – in most cases they see the right picture and you are the one who doesn’t want to accept the reality. Most guys don’t get over this point because admitting a weakness normally lowers your self-esteem. And nobody likes that. Hence most of the guys never really get better with women. Be the difference: Accept that you have to change things and start working on it.

3) Tape yourself on video to see how other people perceive you. It really gives you a reality check. Practice as long as you finally like “this” guy on the tape and your results with girls will skyrocket as you will become much more self-confident. And self-confidence is what girls are really looking for in a guy as it demonstrates a high status.

4) Get more information on attraction and psychology (internet, book store). You have to be aware of the basic principles of human interaction. But don’t overdo it. You don’t need all the books, two or three are enough at the beginning. The information you get from them is only there to know why something works. But it’s absolutely worthless if YOU don’t use it in the real life. You only get better if you go out and approach girls. The lack of experience with girls is the number one reason why guys don’t get the right results with girls. Here’s how you get the most out of the information you receive: break it apart and try one thing after another. If you read something new, go out and try it (and only it) until you get the right results. Only then you can go on and try other stuff.

If you need more information (attraction, openers, body language aso.) I can recommend this e-Book.

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How To Find A Great Partner -11 Things To Do

You don't need to have any kind of preparation whatsoever in order to find a partner. But, in order to find a great partner, you need to have even more preparation than you would to find a great job. The successes in our life don't happen by accident or without effort.

The more of the things that you do on this list, the better partner you will find.

DECIDE ON WHAT YOU WANT FIRST - When you go shopping for food, there are those essential things that you don't want to forget like bread and milk although you end up buying many things. When you look for a partner, you need to be able to tell the important from the extras. You can't live on chips.

USE THE POWER OF VISUALIZATION - Our minds help us to achieve whatever we imagine. Use the power of your mind to help you find a great partner by clearly and repeatedly imaging such a person. You may already do this for sports or for oral presentations. It works for personal relationships too.

MAKE FRIENDS OR SPEND MORE TIME WITH FRIENDS - Friends help us to feel important and not to be lonely. Feeling unimportant and lonely will make you desire a person even if he or she is wrong for you. A starving person will eat moldy bread.

MAKE A DATING PLAN - Decide on how much time you will spend, how much money, how often you will date, etc. Having such a plan keeps you within your budget, keeps you on track, and is more likely to lead to success. Don't depend on spontaneity and luck to find a great partner.

MAKE SURE YOUR FINANCES ARE IN ORDER AND THAT YOU HAVE AN EMERGENCY FUND - Financial and emotional crises create dependencies on other people, even when they are wrong for us. Having money in the bank makes it easier to say "no" when you need to.

WORK ON YOURSELF - Get into counseling or better yet work with a relationship coach. Identify old patterns and change them or else you will just repeat them with a new person. A relationship coach will help you to identify the forces that prevent you from having success. Just wanting things to change doesn't automatically make them change.

FISH WITH THE RIGHT KIND OF BAIT - Are you a stay at home kind of person who is dreaming about an adventurous partner? Will that adventurous partner be attracted to you? It's not about pretending--it's about creating the kind of life you want to have by becoming the kind of person you want to be.

SHOP THE WORLD - If you wanted a fantastic car, would you only look for one at the local junk yard? The right person for you may be across the country or across the world. International dating takes more time than local dating and is not for the desperate and needy. But, the desperate and needy aren't going to find someone good in their backyard either.

ENJOY YOUR LIFE - Just as the best time to find a job is when you don't need one, so is the best time to find a mate. You then end up finding someone to share your great life with rather than looking for someone to make your life great. There is a world of difference.

HAVE A PASSION - Find something that is important to you and get involved. Save the whales, work for a local charity, or climb Mt. Everest. Do what turns you on in life before you look for someone who turns you on in life. Then such a person will be turned on by you.

WORK WITH A RELATIONSHIP COACH - Relationship coaches help you to get the kind of person you want while teaching you essential skills for building the relationship. Every shining star, executive, athlete, or politician you see has a coach. It helps them to be their best and to get the best.

Finding a wonderful mate takes preparation, work, and an investment of time and resources. This is true for every success in life. It is not a matter of getting lucky. It is only a matter of getting the right guidance and working consistently. The sooner you learn that, the sooner you can have what you want in life. Planning and work are characteristic of people who succeed. Are you willing to do what it takes in order to get what you want?

By: Jack Ito PhD

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Made For Life - What Separates Boys From Real Gentleman In The Game Of Seduction

I must admit, when it comes to approaching women and having a meaningful, coherent and well thought out conversation with them (women that is) which could lead to intimacy, you can throw away everything you've ever been taught about them, theory just doesn't match up to the reality, and many a guy will testify to this.

So then, what does it take to really make a lasting impression with women?
What is it, that makes some guys have all the luck, whilst all those well meaning, well healed and well mannered gentlemen out there spend the rest of their formative years cowering in the confines of their homes watching re-runs of Everybody Loves Raymond, when they could be out in the limelight dating all the lonely vivacious single women out there?

One word - Confidence!

As easy as it may sound, just what is Confidence, and why are there different levels of confidence, some levels relating to everyday situations and the others, relating to the heart thumping foot in mouth, sweaty palm situation when we're in the presence of beauty?!

I have some good news for you!

Confidence is a learned human art form, this is a start. I call Confidence an art form for, everything that requires excellence in execution, be it F1 racing, Singing, track racing to seducing only the finest women, and getting away with it, is an art...one cannot help but to stop and marvel at the shear genius of it...even the ladies you seduce will pause for a moment to applaud your tenacity, diction and charm!

Need I say more?

So, regardless of your level of internal insecurities and aberrations pertaining to women, your actions my Dear Watson, should you choose to go ahead with the mission,are reversible, and with stupendous results guaranteed to see you possessing a harem that even the Great Sultan would be envious of!

I think we all can attest to what the lack of confidence does for one's mojo, and what kind of results tend to manifest in our lives, so I'll skip that sordid part entirely (it is after all, depressing) and concentrate instead, on creating opportunities that will put you, every single day of your waking moments, in the path of hot blooded, male depraved, pick-your-jaw-from-the-pavement pretty women that will have your Dad rethink his strategy for having married your mom!

Sound fair?

Let's delve in, shall we...

In a nutshell, Confidence is the ability to accept who you are regardless of what inabilities you may have. It is a kind of internal mindset and belief system that affects your actions, thoughts and speech. Everything you are stems from this set of beliefs! In my opinion,appearance is the single most important and fastest route to looking or feeling confident. Regardless of internal strife or discord, you can always hide your internal emotions, albeit temporarily, by dressing the part.

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Having spent the best part of my life in the wild and studying the big five most dangerous animals on Planet Earth, I really understand why the most vulnerable of prey gets eaten, whilst the other, more agile and enterprising game get away with murder, literally.

So too it is with men, if you act scared, not shy by the way, there's a huge difference there but, if you act scared or, if you do not have a game plan when approaching women, you can rest assured they, (like big game) will smell your fear and lack of confidence from right across the room and have their way with you!

There's nothing as pitiful as a guy with no game plan and no confidence attempting to seduce a pretty chick in a bar, or anywhere for that matter!

It's like trying to steal candy from a kid that's just realized there's sugar in candy, and sugar tastes yummy and sweet! It's just not going to happen!

Just like animals that think or reason in identities... 1=1=1, means that, past results lead to learned behavior. Once you're whipped, each time you approach another chick, past memory kicks in, and you give up...confining yourself to a life of watching re-runs of Everybody loves Raymond on basic cable!

Admitted, it's not easy to shed off fear and shame of rejection when it comes to approaching women but, we live in a highly technical environment, and at no time in the history of the Universe has there been so much information available to mankind...be it self improvement to learning how to harvest syrup from Maple trees in Canada etc!

Just like the famous sneaker brand Nike, Just Do it...whatever it takes, to rid yourself of the dry spell of not having a pretty woman to show off to our peers etc. Join a gym for the women, mooch off your fraternity brothers, go to stand up comedy gigs to laugh yourself silly with other single women or guys etc... the list is not exhaustive, but you get the idea!

In the end, by looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself. Instead of putting down others, why not examine yourself. Declare to yourself that "I am the best" and don't allow anyone to decrease your morale and and confidence.

Good night...

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Kama Sutra – Spice Things Up

Kama Sutra sexual positions are more like an acrobatic art than what many consider to be normal sex. Of the 64 sexual positions covered in the Kama Sutra, maybe ten percent of them are something that most couples engage in on a regular basis. Maybe this is the problem in relationships today.


When people are together and loyal to each other for a long time, they tend to get too comfortable in their sexual relationship, or worse, they can lose interest in their sexual partnership. 90% of marriages that end in divorce are a result of sexual problems or money problems or a combination of both. Kama Sutra will not likely help with the money problems unless you read the part that teaches you to be a prostitute (courtesan), but that, too, will likely lead to sexual problems.

Kama Sutra can, however, help with sexual problems. If you are comfortable in your sexual relationship, meaning if you do the same things time and time again due to a level of comfort that you and your partner have gotten used to, then it’s probably time to spice things up a bit. Of the 64 sexual positions outlined in Kama Sutra, how many of them do you think you have done with your partner? Probably not very many of them. Pick up the text and start reading. It’s time to give something different a try. Learn to master the new positions together. You can do this by reading the book together or by buying a video that focuses on Kama Sutra positions. The best way, though, is by practicing them – a lot.

If you have unfortunately lost interest in sex over years with the same partner, you can re-spark your sex life with Kama Sutra. Ask your partner to help you learn. Explain to him or her that you have become bored and complacent and that your libido just isn’t what it used to be. Let your partner know that it is not their fault and that they have done nothing wrong, this is natural in the course of relationships and you just need some help finding something new and different to peak your interest. Learning Kama Sutra together can not only help your sex life but can also bring you closer together emotionally. Isn’t that what a partnership is really about?

Don’t let your sex life ruin your relationship with the one you love. Learn about Kama Sutra and keep the spice in your life.

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What Is The Kama Sutra?

The Kama Sutra is not so much about sex as it is about sexuality. Many people believe the Kama Sutra to be a book of sexual positions. It is true that there are ten chapters of the book dedicated to different sexual positions and ways to please your sexual partner, but the premise of the book is in getting to the sexual part and to maintain a good, loving relationship where sex is about pleasing each other and knowing how to make the other feel good – but in a socially proper manner.

Kama Sutra is often confused with Tantra or Tantric sex. The difference between these are that Kama Sutra is how to make love properly and how to conduct yourself before and after making love. Tantra is the art of sex and how to please your partner, make sex last longer, and, most importantly, the intimacy of sex. Both Kama Sutra and Tantra have eastern origins and they are often intermixed for the perfect before, during, and after sexual experience.

The Kama Sutra covers all sexual bases. The positions are only a small part of the book’s teachings. It teaches things that are now considered fetishes or taboo in western society. The Kama Sutra teaches partners how to bite, scratch and hit each other during love making. The book also teaches a woman how to be a courtesan or prostitute, and it teaches homosexual positions as well as heterosexual ones. The book teaches how to use “instruments” on each other for pleasure, and when all else fails, how to cast a magical spell or administer aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure.

The Kama Sutra has been translated and rewritten a minimum of six times to the English language. Even when reading the translated versions of the book, some of the phrases and terms will take some getting used to. Most people, when first looking at the book, will scan it and spend the most time in the ten chapters of sexual positions. Be careful not to take some of the phrases too literally, though. Elephant sex does not mean sex with an elephant, it is simply a term used for a particular position.


The most popular translation, and possibly the first to the English language, was by Sir Richard Burton. The best translation, in this author’s opinion, is by Alain Daniйlou and called The Complete Kama Sutra. I like this version because this one seem to be the closest to the original text. However, neither of these translations come with the benefit of illustrations. The illustrated version is called The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra by Lance Dane, also an excellent version.

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Choosing Designer Lingerie - A Man's Guide

We all know women love designer lingerie but if your a guy buying for that special lady sometimes selecting the right item can be harder than you think.
At Ansiti Lingerie we specialise in advising both men and women on how to select lingerie that fits well and looks great. Here's some advice for guys looking to buy something special.

To begin with make sure you know your hosiery from your basques.
Hoisery is generally thought of as coverings for legs and feet and is sometimes reffered to as legwear. Hosiery comes in many forms but is generally tights, hold-ups, stockings and socks. Remeber if its stockings you are buying you may also need to buy a suspender belt. If it is a basque you are looking for then it is a garment worn that may cover the midsection and have a built in bra.


Do you know the bra and briefs size for the lucky lady you wish to treat? If not, don't give up just yet. You can always have a sneaky peak through her underwear drawer and check her sizes. Check the size of a bra that she wears quite often . A bra size will always be a number and a letter eg. 34C. Also check for the size of the knickers. If you have no chance of checking her undies drawer you can ask her friends, mum or daughter. They may not know but they will be able to find out more discreetly than you! If there is no way of finding out what size she is then don't give up there.

You can always buy her some nightwear or hosiery. These often come in dress size (eg. Size 10) or Small, Medium and Large. See a size guide for help with these sizes.

What should you choose?

Choose something that you think she will like but also something you like as well. Think about what sort of styles she likes. Does she wear a padded bra or underwired bras. Does she wear thongs, briefs or shorts? Try and buy her something that she would not necessarily buy for herself.

Black and red are classics but purples and pinks are also a popular alternative. Silk lingerie also makes a special treat. The whole package is important so treat her to the bra and knickers and also any other matching items that may be available such as camisoles or suspender belts and stockings. Also think about camisoles, baby dolls and corsets.

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How To Communicate With Russian Wife In Depression, Or "I Am Tired"!

Russian women have a phrase which is unbearable for men. Though, there are not one but many women's unbearable phrases, but this one is particularly unbearable. This is when a woman suddenly, somehow more often suddenly, seemingly, without rhyme or reason delivers: "I'm tired!". Of course a woman, rather our Russian, has of what to be tired - work, farming, shopping, children, but for some of them worse - the husband. When saying the sacramental "I am tired", a woman has not in mind that she has dragged sleepers all the day, and in the evening broke her back at home - not!

It generally is not a question of physical fatigue, but of some other, which is impossible neither to understand nor to explain. It is what enrages the man, because it is not clear what to answer her for this. To say: "I too tired?" I Do not advise. You'll have heard plenty about what those goats guys are tired of, that even if you really tired, after her monologue your fatigue will be just vanished. Or, in response to her policy statement just to keep silent? As if to take just into consideration - saying, tired means tired. No, I do not recommend. Because a woman had pronounced this not for that man kept silent!

It should be noted that the mournful statement on fatigue the woman makes not only in the most unexpected moment, but also in most inappropriate places. For example, not being at the wheel of harvester or at the loom that would be quite understandable, but, say, at a noisy ball or on the sunny beach - that is inexplicably at all. Incidentally, while we talk about Russian woman for the sake of objectivity, it must be recognized that this is not her invention. Take any "soap operas" or serious foreign film - the same picture. Having exhausted all the claims to a man, having no idea what alse would be presented, Latina also is crying: "how I am tired, Pedro Julio Alberto Don Carlos ibn Hottab!"

Let's say directly: a man may also get tired. Specifically - when cut firewood, dragged water, kindled the coal stove... But the vague fatigue of women literally fags out theman! After all, says she - I am tired to drag potatoes, he would have brought this potatoes. Maybe… Admits she - I am tired to clean the apartment, he would have it vacuum. Perhaps... And says she - I am tired to stick around the cooker, he would have made a sandwich. Probably... But what answer should be to the very abstract and absolutely amotivational woman's message, a man does not know.

We can advise only one thing - when you hear this senseless sacramental words, count to ten in mind and do the same meaninglessly and briefly reply: "Tired? Have a rest." I can not promise an assured result, but the best answer is still not found ...

By: Julia Pika
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Dating Traffic

Married And Still Dating

If you are reading this, you probably fall into one of two categories; one, you’re married and you are thinking of cheating on your spouse, or two, you are wondering what the heck this article is going to be about and you just had to click and see! Well, if you are thinking about cheating, you’ve already given up on doing all you can to keep that spark alive that got the two of you together anyway, so go find another article. This one won’t be what you are looking for.

Did I just mention the “spark”? OK, everyone, be honest. In the beginning, you know, while you were in that dating stage, before the sharing responsibilities, before the kids, the shared pets, working different shifts, maybe different days off, before bills, BEFORE MARRIAGE, what used to happen?


I know I used to go dancing, I went on dinner dates that required dressing up (and that means a little bit of makeup and a comb through your hair!)(NO McDonalds!), we walked along the beach at sunset and we went on picnics at the park and talked the day away. You and your partner did things together, you were on your best behavior, and you enjoyed each other’s company.

So WHAT HAPPENED?

LIFE HAPPENS! THINGS CHANGE!

But do they really have to? I mean, all the time?

No, they don’t! And you all have to do is to make an effort and little by little either keep that spark burning or find ways to bring it back if it’s starting to flicker and fade. It doesn’t take much effort, it doesn’t even have to take much money, but there has to be a conscious thought that “I want to spend time with my partner today”.

It may be taking a short walk through the neighborhood after dinner (holding hands, of course), maybe get a sitter (or sitter swap if you are on a budget) for a few hours and go see a movie (cuddling is great for this activity, hint, hint!). How about dressing up instead of wearing those jeans (or sweats) and t-shirt and going window shopping together? One, you will feel good about looking so HOT (and don’t you feel sexy when you know you are looking good?), you get to spend time with your honey, AND you get to talk about all of those things you are looking at while you are shopping. (This is a great time to drop hints about what you’d like for that birthday coming up or try and see if you can figure out what he’d really like for Father’s Day! Doesn’t he have enough ties, maybe he’d like that new fishing pole in the Sports Department this year?)

Do either of you brown bag your lunch to bring to work? When was the last time you snuck a note or a cute card in the bag to be read when lunch comes around? Just a simple “I love you! XOXOX” on a sticky note is sure to bring a smile to your partner’s face. Ever see those little “love coupon booklets” (I’ve seen them at Barnes and Noble and Wal-Mart to name a few) that you can tear out a page and leave on a pillow or hide in a suitcase for those who travel to see when they arrive at their destination? Some of them are very sweet and lovey dovey and some of them are just “HUBBA HUBBA”, you start hot flashing and the steam starts coming out of your ears! Whew! YOU decide how far you want to go. The look on your partner’s face may be enough to get things into perspective, nothing like SEEING that you are turning on the love of your life to get your own juices flowing! Wow, talk about a turn on, right?

When was the last time that instead of turning off the lights at night and waiting to see who starts snoring first (let’s get real, ladies, some of US snore, too!) that the lights get turned down to dim, you warm up some lotion or a lightly scented oil and gave your honey a rub down? My partner just goes all boneless and limp, then when I start rubbing his feet, I’d swear he’s part cat, he is literally PURRING! Just don’t forget to WARM the oil or lotion up; cold lotion will NOT relax your partner! LOL

Have I said yet that my husband has NEVER just let himself go to sleep after I give him that extra attention? Oh, no, my honey can’t wait to return the favor with the scented oil, he takes his time on MY feet (oh, my God, limp just does not describe how your body feels with a good foot rub!) and by the time he reaches my back, we are back to the HUBBA, HUBBA stage! I don’t think anyone needs me to explain any further what that means, right?

I’m going to go out on a little limb now and mention “phone sex”! I mean, come on, be honest, didn’t you have phone sex (whether it was just heavy flirting or all out petting yourself and telling your partner what you were doing) BEFORE you were married? I’m sure that most of you did (I can’t be in the minority, right?) (I am so laughing on this one, HUBBA, HUBBA, the memories . . .) So why does that have to stop because you are married and have kids? Wouldn’t you think that this is the BEST time to have phone sex? Now, be smart and think about the condition of your partner if you call him on his way TO work and get him all hot and bothered, I mean, do you really want his boss to see him that way? Well, some of you may be twisted enough to do this (I am so laughing on this one!), BUT calling him on the way HOME can be so productive, especially if you can have Grandma pick up the kids for a few hours and be wearing something sweet (hey, seductive works BETTER than sweet sometimes!) when you open the door for him to walk into the house.

Can you hear me say “PLAN A DATE/TIME WITH YOUR HONEY?

Nothing I’m mentioning here is anything new! Just a little bit of planning (spontaneity is wonderful, too!), just a little conscious effort, just a little bit of “he/she makes me happy and I want to spend time with them” is all it takes. You got married, so there must have been a reason why. And doesn’t it just make sense to try to keep that happiness, the joy, the satisfaction of spending time together, the contentment of being with the right person, to keep all of these things alive in your life?

I have to admit to really, truly feeling my own heart swell whenever I see an older couple walking past me, arm in arm or holding hands, and showing their connection, their love, to each other in their faces, in the way they stand next to each other.

Now, ultimately, isn’t that what we all really crave? Acceptance for what we are, no matter what, and the love we can share with the right person?

If you are married, if you have the right person, if you really love each other, DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO KEEP THAT LOVE ALIVE! IT IS A TWO WAY STREET AND AS LONG AS YOU BOTH ALWAYS TRY TO KEEP THE OTHER HAPPY, YOU WILL ALWAYS WIN THE GAME CALLED “LOVE”!

“Married” and “Dating” do NOT need to be on separate plains, intermingle them for the very best results. HAVE FUN!

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Russian Girls. Jades Or Angels.

Surely you're not surprised with the fact that Russian girls like indeed the girls of any other nationality are a certain mixture of angel and devil. But this blend of Russian girls has its national characteristics. Today I want to talk about Russian girls in terms of their propensity to bitchiness (I think the word "jadishness" will suites better, so let me use it hereinafter). And how this can be overcome successfully.

You once are cruel, gently then
Again you beat my fragile nerves...
You have to wear warning plate:
"I'm dangerous! Before you Jade!"

So exclaimed a poet, often run up on terrible jades and time after time missed very painful blows. Assuming that at the call of bard all jades suddenly take the plates recommended them, the tender and vulnerable men will certainly be shocked by a huge magnitude of the jadishness -as terrible as the tsunami, and unpredictable as El Niño, a spontaneous phenomenon of nature.

But the jades can be different, here are the major types of jades, which most often occur in our Russians latitudes. We hope that this classification is useful for our readers, because the enemy, as the famous commander said, must be known by sight.

Spontaneous jade.

By appearance she is soft, decent, gentle, faint and kind, but can get worked up with half-turn. The only wrong word, a vague gesture doubtful compliment, and the poor man is assailed with tubs of dirt, buckets of charges, often in the form of material objects griddle (with a garnish), teapots (with boiling water), hot irons and aromatic dishes with borsch.

The main signs of this type of jade are the dove-eyed view and some complex. Spontaneity of the nature is also evident in the nature of sexuality. This lady can quickly get excited and dominate a man in any interior of the home, at work, in transport, at a public event. She does not love to refuse herself something, as her constraint centers are struck by unknown to Science viruses. Natural jadishness is to be treated difficult and long. Resorts, waters, expensive gifts, moralizing interviews are not effective. "Antibiotics" are helpful in the form of regular injections (sometimes with the use of physical coercion). In the reasoning behind this suggestion is the teachings of Pavlov's instincts, and the result of it - jade's clear understanding of the fact that, if she once again "begin to pull a trick", it will be very painful.

Pig-headed jade.

The most difficult type. The stubbornness is transmitted maternally or acquired during poor upbringing in childhood. This jadishness shines through all, daily and hourly. Pig-headed jade is in a state of perpetual hysterics, therefore is extremely dangerous to bystanders.

In the sex she is unpredictable, as well in her deeds. The distressing statistics
impassively reported of numerous injuries of mates to be at fault, caused by jealous jades of this type. Reeducation - not subject. Only hippopotamus with a thick skin and blind deaf and dumb cynics can get along with such a lady.

Oddity jade.

"You are an interesting oddity, but the matter, you see in terms ..." - sang a famous singer. What's the matter, he did not conveyed to curious public. And the fact is that "oddity jade" is a term born in Odessa and characterizes the most warm and mild (tolerance) jadishness type. Oddity jade constantly wants to change everything around her partner's life, an apartment, work, friends, children and relatives, the situation around him, the view outside the window and even the country. For such a girl the permanent dissatisfaction,
some timid romanticism and sentimentality is typical. She always looks for something better, "miracle", but her actions often resemble Don Quixote's struggle against the mills.

Oddity jade brings a lot of inconvenience to a family. She makes them all the time comments, trying (most of the good intentions) to change these loved ones for the better. She is very disappointing that they are changing, but not so quickly as she would like. She is often on the verge of tears. She is often, wantonly crying, explaining this by the pain from the imperfections of the world. In sex she requires a romance, candles, guitars, gentle words.

When treating this type of oddity jade the excellent results are given by full load the girl with some interesting affairs, so that she has neither time nor effort left.

Jade - chameleon.

At work, she is angel with gentle winglets. She is warning, soft, witty, radiates charisma and charm, is sober, logical and predictable in the deeds and thoughts. If necessary, she will serve any sexual services to superior officer. She has an excellent reputation of reliable, executive employee, her portrait hangs constantly on the symbolic Leaderboard.

At home, she has changed to one hundred and eighty degrees, becoming a tyrant in a dressing gown. She continuing needles the henpecked husband, children-sloven, mother-in-law-schizophrenic, not allowing them to relax for a second. Sex in family relations she uses as an additional tool for exerting a pressure on her husband. Husband to be guilty is charged deprived of "sexual rations" to the full remedy. While she herself is exposed to corrective with great difficulty. A life partner with a very strong character is only capable to eradicate the chameleonizm from such a person.

Armed with academic advice, you, men can safely apply them in everyday practice, because those times when jades will wear distinctive plates, is unlikely to come soon, remaining a pious wish of the poet in the clouds. Not for nothing the aforist who came under the charm of mistress-jade and abled fortunately, to break out of her iron embrace, finely perceived:

"A jade is a woman who changes a man into a hybrid of Vibrator and ATM". Better not true.

By: Julia Pika

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Article is written to give an outline description of a certain type of Russian girls. Fortunately for western men who would like to meet a bride among Russian girls such women do not look for husband abroad and dating sites are visited only by Cute And Pretty Girls

Internet Dating As A Way To Lose Yourself.

Have you happened, the moment you find yourself at a computer, right away download the favorite dating site to spend long hours there? If not, this article is not about you and we are happy for you.

Because for someone the Internet dating is currently acting as a drug substitute for everything else. This is not limited by wearing out by sitting all days through in the Internet. Behavior is changing, one wants to finish quickly onerous "other matters", to quickly set about to what suddenly became the principal.

Sometimes the girls are starting to deny themselves even food and sleep to spend more time in illusory world, where so many men admire you. If you tell such a girl that her state of anxiety inspires you, she surely will find the explanation that there is no cause for any concern: that this is simply a way to spend time, that this is the place to communicate with friends or she just enjoys, playing her fans. All this may be partly true, but only partly. The full truth is that she would sacrifice a reality for illusion.

Maybe she even went to date, scheduled on dating sites. But if these dates with men has been proved unsuccessful over and over again, and for a long time she again goes back into illusory communication, there is every reason to worry.

You will demand what is the poor? Why not to sit a couple extra hours in comfort and security at the computer? It is only one poor thing here: when the reality is replaced by illusions, even such a plausible and fascinating, as the Internet romances are, a person loses a part of himself with these illusions.

What is the point to try to make someone seem in reality, if on the dating site there will always be dozens of fans? Why should we establish strong relations if we can change the men at least several times a day, even if in pretence? And if all this is so cool and pleasant, why not to sacrifice by boring school or career? So there is a risk of losing ourselves in fact and to spend on dating sites the lees of life.

What to do if your friend is subject to such a reliance, or you have noticed in yourself the signs of it? First of all, try to diversify the life by the other forms of activity. Walking in the park is almost always better than the evening for a computer. Casual acquaintance in the institute, at work or in the streets will give you more emotions than any Internet acquaintance, and has no fewer prospects.

Just remember that the dating sites - are only tool to ensure that you met someone important to you. They simply hundreds or thousands times expand your potential possibilities, increasing the chances according to the probability theory, but NEVER would be able to replace the reality. Do not get involved in Internet communication for "just to chat" - do look for a real living partner you can meet.

Internet sites would render you an invaluable service.

And did you happen when you could not force yourself to leave the dating site?




By: Julia Pika
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Why Cute And Pretty Girls Don't Love Me...

You have a problem with pretty girls, while your friend everything goes perfectly. Cute girls just cling to him. But those same pretty girls for some reason are starting to avoid you after the first meetings. What don't the girls like in you?

Perhaps you're just the type of man who discourages the representatives of the opposite gender. Certain types of men can attract or discourage women. It particularly relevant is at the stage of dating.

Below are named and described male character traits which deters any women and not only cute or pretty girls. Knowing them, you will be able to control yourself and make a favorable first impression on girls.

1. Needy woman's attention.

He is a very emotional, imparts a girl all his feelings and emotions. He constantly doubts in himself, he needs to hear that all is well between him and girl, that he had a good work, friends, etc. Sexually attractive character traits of men are confidence and independence. Women strive to get a man of strong spirit, so you can scare her by your sentimentality at the stage of dating. But, as you know, women are substances of contradictory they simultaneously want two opposite qualities. Your mental becomes your trump when you will bring together and develop relations a little. Then you can talk on any hob-nob, a woman will even seek to learn what do you have in mind and heart.

2. Predictable.

It is dull to communicate with a man who always acts on the pattern and never presents surprises. Unpredictability and the spirit of freedom attract women, so they give themselves up in the hands of "bad guys" so often. That does not mean that you should become a "bad guy". Just be different, mix predictability and unpredictability. For example, suddenly call and invite her to dinner or a trip to nature.

3. Arrogant.

He condescends to communicate with people and talks with them as if they are worse and more
silly than he, gross with those he considers them bellowed himself. A woman estimates a man by how he communicates with others. Thus, she foresees how a man will communicate with her when they are closer acquaintance. If you want to impress a woman, do show more respect to others. Remember, she oversees you.

4. Ill-mannered.

He undisguisedly examines other cute women in her presence, may even to flirt a little. That does not confuse him. He can talk about his past victories at the amorous front. In general, all this shows that he does not respect women. Such a behaviour will not like a woman, both at the stage of dating, and at the stage of serious relationships.

5. Greedy.

He invites the woman to visit and subtly hints that it would be a good idea to pay Dutch treat. He will not come down with money once again for bouquet of flowers and always orders cheap wine. From the first date a woman feels in the mode of austerity. The words "budget" and "savings", are not germane on the first date. At the stage of courting a woman should feel special, otherwise nothing will do.

6. Debater.

Any conversation he turns into verbal battle. The woman does not feel comfortable at the time, she has to defend herself, to think about what she said. To communicate with a rival lover is a stress. If you have this feature, try to relax mostly during the visits, as well as a desire to start a dispute comes to you from the fact that you are nervous and do not know what to say. Pre consider the possible topics for discussions and questions that you can ask your girl.

7. Considers himself always right.

Such a man feels entitled to judge others. From the first visit, he begins to indicate the woman what she would do and what not to do. Such behaviour cause a woman nothing but feelings of irritation and anger. Who will like that someone reads a lecture to her, yet even on the first date. The cases, features, character and deeds of a stranger, all these are the personal matter. If you do not like something in girl already on the first date, do not continue to meet with this woman. Each person has advantages and disadvantages, one can tolerate some of them, the other can not. To alter the other person is not a grateful work.

8. Misogynist.

A man of this type makes no secret of his attitude to women, releasing cynical and offensive comments relatively to the entire female sex, and towards his girl in particular. This is definitely one of the men's qualities, which total-lot causes any negative reaction from the women. If you are a misogynist, why would you even go to visit? To verify once more your rightness or in the hope of finding your ideal there? If you do want to find your half, then you have to discard the illusions (there are no perfect people), and to change yourself, become tolerant. And pretty girls will stop to avoid you.

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Power Of Desire. Think Of The Woman, Which You Want To Have

Ancient popular wisdom goes:

When you sow the idea - then you will reap the deed, when you sow the deed - then you will reap the habit, when you sow the habit - then you will reap the nature, when you sow the nature - then you will reap the Fate.

So it is say everything starts from our head. From this container of thoughts. Remember, as in the sacred books written: "First was the word, and the word has been…" And then the old long story goes on. Maybe it was in all different way. Maybe Creator sat and thought: "What then became bored. What if to make something alse? Let Me establish Earth and the life on it. "And He said: "Let there be light". And the full-program creation started.

But few people aware that we have the same processes occur. Our thoughts as actively implemented as a Divine Beginning. DO NOT believe it? You do look around! Do you see over there: that very "skunk" is standing, yes, your husband! Remember how handsome he was, assistant, master? And now? Hands not from the place grow! But stop and ask yourself: who had created this armless and the gloomy subject of any negligence? Do you want a honest answer? You!

"No, this could not be!"- objections from any of you. And I will give you an argument. Remember when you made court each other. What did you say, how did you act, how did you look in the end? And now? Is this different state? Of course, you will tell. Of course, differ! After all, it's been a long time! And now a different matter! And what, in fact, was changed? After all, a man who is at your side, he is the same. Just you may be not knowing the fact, set in motion an ancient mechanism.

What you think today that you have tomorrow.

Some ones went further and called the assistance of a law that instantly realize into reality all your thoughts. Especially if you accompany them even more with words and gestures. The Law is simple. But ignorance of the law does not exempt from liability! Attention, the Law!

What you pay attention to, it develops!

So Divine Creation is directly relevant to us. The same thing is happening and we have: before we do anything, we have raised some kind of thought in the head. And after we commit to do. But now the question arises. Whence they were, these thoughts appearing in the head? Why in one head light, bright ideas do appear, and in another the solid dump? It turns out, there is the explanation of this. There is a hypothesis that the idea does not arise in the head, it comes to us. Well, the scenario with you. You noticed, and even scored for sound: "Oh! The idea came. Oh! Again went away. "So what?", you will tell. "Why do I need to know that?" This is actually quite important. When you begin the process of working with your goals, be sure to write them. When you concentrate your attention on your objectives, tasks, the various useful thoughts start to come. And if you do not commit, they can quickly leave you. Thoughts, ideas, thoughts! It is through thoughts that our life takes on a particular line. Think of the partner, which you want to have and you will get it!
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Personal Life. 7 Reasons Why People Do Not Set Goals.

"When a person does not know which dock his ship is heading due, no one wind will be the fair wind" - Seneca.

Everybody knows about the importance of placing at the top the most important tasks. But yet, even knowing this, many people continue being given up the turbulent currents of life, trusting that they whenever will accidentally get to the island called wealth, health and personal success! But years elapse, and the island has never encounters a way. Let us once again raise the theme of the importance of goals.

The Man Without a goal - like a ship without a helm, drifting aimlessly and continuously at risk raid on the reefs. A person with a goal is similar the vessel leading by an skilled captain with the help of maps and compasses, he knows the destination and he leads the ship directly to the port of his own choice.

Recent studies have shown. Our brain contains a mechanism of tasking, accurately and faultlessly guiding us to achieve the goals. Through this mechanism, which is in our brain, we are get every goal, unless it is unclear, and we are quite tenacious. The process of achieving the goal happens almost automatically. But it is tasking is the main problem for most people.

This means that we achieve all the goals we seek - it is a fact. You are now where you are and what you are, because you wanted this. Your thoughts, actions, the behavior led you to the current state. If your goal is to live day, to go home and sit down in front of the TV, you reach it. If you are thinking to end to feel good, to be healthy and live a long life then you will reach that goal as well.

The greatest enemy of your capacity to succeed and achievements is your comfort zone, your desire to stuck in rut and resist against all changes, albeit positive, which are trying to push you out. This is feature of every person to fear and avoid the changes. We want the things to remain as they are, but also be improved. But any growth, progress, development requires changes. Changes are inevitable. What would you do, life never stands still. It always changes in a particular direction. The situation has become something better, then worse, but never remains the same. Because the Act is valid - the cause and the consequence. Objectives are causes; health, happiness, freedom and prosperity - these are consequences. You sow the goals and reap the results.

The main reason for life success is the ability to set goals and achieve them. That's why people without a goal doomed forever to work for those who have these goals. Simple conclusion.

You work for the achievement of goals either yours or other’s ones. Let's try to define a number of reasons why people do not put the goal. After all, who is warned he is armed, ancient wisdom reads.

The first reason why people do not put the goal is that they are simply frivolous. They

prefer the word instead action, want to make great strides to improve their lives, but are unwilling to make an effort required. They lack the "fire" that mobilizes a burning desire to change, to transform their lives into something more, better, interesting.

The second reason why people do not put the goal is that they still do not dare to take responsibility for their own lives. We can not say that they made even one step to setting goals until a moment when people assume full responsibility for their lives and for all that is happening with them. Irresponsible people are the persons who are still waiting for to begin a real life. Such a person is using all his creative energies to think out exaggerating intricate excuses about his inability to make progress, and then buys lottery
tickets and goes home to watch TV and drink beer.

The third reason why people do not put the goal is to deep feelings of guilt and low self-esteem. A man who grew up in a particular environment, raised in the sense that he does not deserve anything, is hardly able to raise serious purpose.

The fourth reason for the lack tasking is that they are not aware of the importance of goal. If you grew up in a family where the parents do not rise the objectives and the issue of achieving the goals is not a topic of family conversations, it is likely to become an adult, never learned that the goal is setting not only in the sport.

The fifth reason why people do not put the goal is that they simply do not know how to do this. In our society, unfortunately, it is not possible to obtain a diploma on the subject of goals, and this discipline is much more important than any object ever studied you.

The sixth reason for the non-tasking - it is only the fear to receive a waiver, the fear to be criticized. From the childhood our dreams and our hopes are suffering from strokes, caused laughter and criticism of others. Our enemies and friends laughed at us when we represented ourselves someone. Their influence may leave the imprint on your attitude to yourself, on setting goals for life.

The seventh reason why people do not put the goal - is the fear of defeat. Fear of failure is the greatest obstacle to success in adult life. It keeps people in their comfort zones. It makes they bend down their heads and remain in the security, while the years pass by. The fear digested in early childhood as a result of criticism and punishment. Once deeply rooted in the subconscious, the fear spreads further, paralyzing and killing the dream ambitions, bringing more harm than any other negative emotion attending human soul. That is why people do not put goal.

Once again feel deeply the words of a great Seneca.
"When a person does not know which dock his ship is heading due, no one wind will be the fair wind".

By: Julia Pika

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Intuition For Success In Personal Life

Our life is arranged in such a way that in order to achieve maximum impact we should use our abilities in the fullest. It is not a secret that our brain is a powerful tool that literally works wonders. And of course you know that there is logic and intuition. Left and right brain hemisphere each perform its own function.

Take a simple task. This ballerina can whirl in any direction. Logicians see her whirling in one direction while Intuitive persons see another. Harmoniously developed person can make her to whirl the way he wants. If you think that she whirls clockwise, you have left hemisphere developed stronger (logic analysis), a counter-clockwise direction - right hemisphere developed stronger (emotions, intuition).

Conclusion.
There is a need to develop, train, reveal your dreams. Move to your goals using the tool of logic and intuition to achieve maximum results. And if you have no goals yet, quickly decide where you to go. Otherwise your life can be a bit one-sided and not interesting. We wish you a wonderful, colorful life. Worthy goals and your opportunities revealed. We wish you well-being and prosperity. Put ballerina whirl the way you want. And you will see amazing changes in your life!

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