Personality Traits That Attract Women Or How To Attract Women

A lot of guys believe that being nice to a woman will get them somewhere. But let’s be realistic, women don’t like nice guys. The reason is that nice guys demonstrate too much neediness and thus women already unconsciously feel that those guys have a low status. And the number one thing women look for in a man is a high status. That’s why women are attracted to:

1) Jerks. Women are attracted to guys who demonstrate strength, but not through muscles, but through dominance and self-confidence (alpha male behavior). The alpha guy is a type of man who can demonstrate that he is successful and has women in his life. He is not needy like the nice guys. The alpha guy always sets the tone, never looks for approval and always has a plan where to go and what to do. He never asks the woman “What would you like to do?” He knows what he wants and decides over her head. And he is successful with it because women like leaders.

2) Successful people. It doesn’t matter in which area you are successful – as long as many people acknowledge that you are successful. Otherwise we are talking about an illusion. Women like successful guys because women associate success with higher status and wealth (ok, normally we all do that). Actually, the important thing here is: Simply displaying the desire for successful can be just as powerful. If you can demonstrate that you have goals in your life and are passionate about them, women will automatically feel attracted to you.

3) Guys who can talk. There is one quality you really need to become good in interacting with women. It’s storytelling. Learn how to tell an interesting story. There is no need to learn 20 stories by the heart. If you can tell one or two stories without problems, it’s enough. Actually, guys who are good with women tell the same story again and again. But it’s not only about what you tell but how you tell it. Try to be excited about your story, show some emotions, include some hand gestures (not too much) and insert pauses to build suspense or humor. Speak clearly and don’t mumble. Don’t speak too fast, because it makes your voice sound higher. Don’t forget: Your tone of voice affects how people respond to you and a high voice is not perceived to be one of authority. Deeper voices in contrast have more credibility.

4) Well-dressed guys (it’s not a personality trait, but it’s important anyway).

First of all, let’s clear out a common misunderstanding: Dressing well is not about buying the most expensive stuff, but about style. And style means that your clothes fit. Clothes that are too big or too small demonstrate you don’t care about your looks. But if you don’t, who will?
Again, you don’t have to be rich and famous to dress well. When it comes to looks, it’s more about presentation than anything else – your clothes only have to convey an interesting identity. You don’t have to “peacock”, but you have to stand out from the crowd.

By: Steve Wells

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