Dealing with women you want to attract is a special chapter in every man’s life. You can make a ton of mistakes interacting with women, because women are much more sensitive about social dynamics. Women can figure out how much experience you have with other women in minutes – if not in seconds.
If you wonder why, here’s the reason: Women have a much higher interaction experience than men because they:
A) in general interact more (with men and women) and even more important:
B) since they were 13 years old guys were hitting on them. So the sum of experience women have with guys is much higher than men have with women. Ergo, men have a lot to catch up on.
What does this mean for you? Simply that the more experience you get in interacting with women, the BETTER you will get (provided that you don’t make the same mistakes again and again). This means you have to practice a lot. You have to know this before you take a look at the
Top 3 Ways to Get Girls to Notice You:
1) Improve the way you dress.
Looks are NOT the most important part of attracting girls, but they are important, because they affect how somebody who doesn’t know you will assess you. People judge by the looks and you have only seconds to demonstrate that you are a man of style. Don’t mess it up with boring sweaters and dirty sneakers.
You don’t have to dress like a gigolo either. If you look like a software engineer, try to loosen your clothes a little bit - add some color to it. Get rid of plaid and Hawaiian shirts. Look for some interesting necklaces, rings or wristlets. Why? Because every woman wants to know what they stand for.
2) Be social.
This simply means that on every given event where a lot of people come together, you should interact with different women and man. Get to know people. Try to make a habit of it.
Why? Because one of the things women look for in a man is (social) status. Standing alone in a corner with a beer in your hand watching all the other people having fun is the lowest status you can demonstrate.
You think women are too busy talking to someone to notice it? As if! Women have something like a radar for social status. They notice in seconds who’s the center of attraction on a party (and feel drawn to this person) and who’s the loser nobody’s talking to.
So, try to become the center of attraction interacting with people. It’s not easy, especially if you are not a social person. But it’s no nuclear science either, that means you can learn it.
For example you can come up with: “Hi guys! I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women?” It’s a topic everyone likes to talk about and nobody will shut you down on this one. The tricky thing with this “opener” (a question or statement you start a conversation with) is that you need to explain why you are asking. So say something like “I read a female magazine (at the dentist) today and they did this study. Me and my buddy are arguing about it all day…”
If you are a shy person and can’t bring yourself to talk to “strangers”, please consider this: Shyness is not in your genes. It all comes back to a habit. For the most part you are shy because you don’t talk to (many) people! Make the first step, than make the second and the third. And before you can say knife being social will become your new habit.
You don’t want to change yourself? Maybe this will motivate you: If you carry on doing what you’ve always done, you’ll carry on getting what you’ve always got – the same poor outcomes (no girls, no fun, no happiness).
3) Be different.
This sounds like an ad slogan and is nonetheless a key point in attracting girls. Try to develop a unique personality, your own point of view on anything. Have concrete goals in life.
Why? Because it makes you interesting, it makes you stand out from the last 10 or even 100 guys the girl you’re talking to hooked up with. It’s a fact: Women like men with (concrete) goals as this demonstrates a strong, assertive character.
Being different also means that you can demonstrate (a special) value – something not everyone can do. This doesn’t mean that you have to play a greasy song on the guitar (but do so if you can). For example you can ask her about the last time she laughed with all her heart (say a friend asked you this and you didn’t know what to answer first). Ask her to tell you about the happiest moment of her life or a special moment in her childhood and then tell yours. Try to relate to her thoughts and feelings, but don’t overdo it.
Read up on palm reading, dream interpretation or psycho tests (it’s not that difficult to memorize this stuff as all those “tests” work with given patterns) and use it on your next date. Women love all kinds of tests.
Don’t forget: it’s not only about the content but your presentation as 90 % of the communication is non-verbal (60% is Body Language and 30% is Tone). That means you also have to learn how to read her body language. But don’t be down in the mouth: Although it’s a lot of work, it’s a lot of fun too! And you will get better every time you perform those things. So, don’t put it off, start practicing today!
P.S. You can find excellent tips on how to read women’s body language here. Did you know that if she touches (or plays with) her hair or her neck/ ears she’s probably interested in you? That if she puts on her lipstick right in front of you it doesn’t mean she wants you to kiss her?
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Kama Sutra – Spice Things Up
Kama Sutra sexual positions are more like an acrobatic art than what many consider to be normal sex. Of the 64 sexual positions covered in the Kama Sutra, maybe ten percent of them are something that most couples engage in on a regular basis. Maybe this is the problem in relationships today. 
When people are together and loyal to each other for a long time, they tend to get too comfortable in their sexual relationship, or worse, they can lose interest in their sexual partnership. 90% of marriages that end in divorce are a result of sexual problems or money problems or a combination of both. Kama Sutra will not likely help with the money problems unless you read the part that teaches you to be a prostitute (courtesan), but that, too, will likely lead to sexual problems.
Kama Sutra can, however, help with sexual problems. If you are comfortable in your sexual relationship, meaning if you do the same things time and time again due to a level of comfort that you and your partner have gotten used to, then it’s probably time to spice things up a bit. Of the 64 sexual positions outlined in Kama Sutra, how many of them do you think you have done with your partner? Probably not very many of them. Pick up the text and start reading. It’s time to give something different a try. Learn to master the new positions together. You can do this by reading the book together or by buying a video that focuses on Kama Sutra positions. The best way, though, is by practicing them – a lot.
If you have unfortunately lost interest in sex over years with the same partner, you can re-spark your sex life with Kama Sutra. Ask your partner to help you learn. Explain to him or her that you have become bored and complacent and that your libido just isn’t what it used to be. Let your partner know that it is not their fault and that they have done nothing wrong, this is natural in the course of relationships and you just need some help finding something new and different to peak your interest. Learning Kama Sutra together can not only help your sex life but can also bring you closer together emotionally. Isn’t that what a partnership is really about?
Don’t let your sex life ruin your relationship with the one you love. Learn about Kama Sutra and keep the spice in your life.
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What Is The Kama Sutra?
The Kama Sutra is not so much about sex as it is about sexuality. Many people believe the Kama Sutra to be a book of sexual positions. It is true that there are ten chapters of the book dedicated to different sexual positions and ways to please your sexual partner, but the premise of the book is in getting to the sexual part and to maintain a good, loving relationship where sex is about pleasing each other and knowing how to make the other feel good – but in a socially proper manner.
Kama Sutra is often confused with Tantra or Tantric sex. The difference between these are that Kama Sutra is how to make love properly and how to conduct yourself before and after making love. Tantra is the art of sex and how to please your partner, make sex last longer, and, most importantly, the intimacy of sex. Both Kama Sutra and Tantra have eastern origins and they are often intermixed for the perfect before, during, and after sexual experience.
The Kama Sutra covers all sexual bases. The positions are only a small part of the book’s teachings. It teaches things that are now considered fetishes or taboo in western society. The Kama Sutra teaches partners how to bite, scratch and hit each other during love making. The book also teaches a woman how to be a courtesan or prostitute, and it teaches homosexual positions as well as heterosexual ones. The book teaches how to use “instruments” on each other for pleasure, and when all else fails, how to cast a magical spell or administer aphrodisiacs to enhance sexual pleasure.
The Kama Sutra has been translated and rewritten a minimum of six times to the English language. Even when reading the translated versions of the book, some of the phrases and terms will take some getting used to. Most people, when first looking at the book, will scan it and spend the most time in the ten chapters of sexual positions. Be careful not to take some of the phrases too literally, though. Elephant sex does not mean sex with an elephant, it is simply a term used for a particular position. 
The most popular translation, and possibly the first to the English language, was by Sir Richard Burton. The best translation, in this author’s opinion, is by Alain Daniйlou and called The Complete Kama Sutra. I like this version because this one seem to be the closest to the original text. However, neither of these translations come with the benefit of illustrations. The illustrated version is called The Complete Illustrated Kama Sutra by Lance Dane, also an excellent version.
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Why Nice Guys Finish Last
Why being good is a near synonym with “looserism” is something I don’t really get. I mean seriously, being good is essentially treating people well and caring for their feelings.
But probably caring too much is mixing up priorities and that’s exactly where the good guy falls flat. Too many good guys believe that to be good, they have to be dumb, weak and sensitive. This inadvertently turns out to be the bad guy’s advantage. The bad guy doesn’t care what people think, he’s the type who used to flout all the rules at school, hang out till late at night with friends and spend away his parent’s hard earned cash on drinks and smokes. Good guys on the other hand came back when expected, stayed mute in class, and allowed the bad dude to walk all over him….just because he was told not to fight.
Getting into the Bad boy’s head
A bad guy knows what he wants, and he gets it by hook or crook. Their self image is based on false pride, attitude problems and a larger than life projection of themselves when it comes to socializing and mixing. These are the kind of people who’ve never seen a problem in life and so end up thinking that they can get whatever they want. They have that carefree (or careless) kind of attitude which is irresistibly appealing. Despite all the bad things they do, they end up getting both the respect and the accolades.
What the Girls like
How many times have you heard a female spat out “there isn’t a single good guy left in this world!!!” and how many times have you seen the same female go out with a guy who can’t tell north from south. If I didn’t know any better, I’d say they had no clue of what they want! Girls like guys who are assertive and confident. Also a bad guy can keep a girl guessing by giving her the “I don’t give a damn” look. Girls look for a challenge in a relationship which a bad guy is more than happy to offer. Good guys on the other hand, become too predictable after a while so they end up being tagged as boring.
Essentially the difference is merely of guts and not of good or bad. In fact a few pointers to the good souls out there and they will see their problems disappear. First; learn to stand up for yourself: Become aggressive and assertive, its good if you care for someone else’s feelings but it should not be your only concern. Secondly; put yourself before everybody else. In their quest to be as “good” as they can the good guys end up totally ignoring themselves….wrong!!! Believe that it’s your life, your choices and your own priorities are above anybody else’s (especially above a girl who may walk out on you in the first place). Thirdly; pump up your social skills; go out and talk to some people and build up your confidence, be proud of who you are, there ain’t many of you left in this sad, bad world! Remember Bad guys rule when good guys allow it!
To sum it all up – Bad guys get what they want simply because they know what they want and there are no questions in their heads about it. Good guys conversely, know what they want but bother too much with ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’. They end up creating too many obstacles for themselves which drains away their confidence and leaves them hanging in the balance. So there; you are a good soul which means your place in heaven is reserved; now you got to make a place in this world which really isn’t that hard. Half of the war is already won as you are basically a good human being, all you would want to work on is being damn proud of that and then letting people know that you are far better than that show off jerk!
So much for part 1. Stay tuned for the next article where we shall discuss how you can have a well balanced personality. Know that you can be bad without having a taxed conscience!
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