Most men that I know have some kind of ‘feeling’ that it’s wrong in some way to sleep with more than one woman at a time. (I’m not even referring to a Mйnage а Trois, either. I’m talking about plain old run-of-the-mill dating a couple of women at a time here.)
But most women that I know have more than just a ‘feeling’ about this idea. Most women are outspoken and very forward about the idea that it’s WRONG for most men to date and sleep with more than one woman. You can see it in their faces and hear it in their voices when they talk about this topic.
If you know what I’m talking about, give me a silent nod here.
What I’ve discovered by doing my homework is that the moral idea of monogamy (having only one partner at a time) has been formalized, passed down, and force-fed to us culturally by rulers, religions, and women for thousands of years.
I don’t mean to get too far out here, but I feel that understanding from where these beliefs came and how they are promoted will liberate many readers.
Onward.
Anywhere from hundreds to thousands of years ago, rulers of lands kept large harems of women. These harems were guarded carefully to prevent any males except the rulers from having access to these women. The penalty for sleeping with one of the ruler’s women could be, in an extreme case, your own death and the deaths of everyone in your family and village. (Back then there were bigger risks involved!)
These rulers kept so many women not just for the sexual variety that it provided them, but also for the reproductive power that it gave them. These rulers often had detailed records kept so they could copulate with only the most fertile women and maximize the woman’s chances of pregnancy and passing on their own genes.
So what do you think these rulers did to protect their harems?
Right! They passed laws (from which they were exempt) to promote monogamy.
In these times there was a great shortage of women, so these laws would discourage married men (those lucky enough to find a woman) from seeking sex outside of their marriage and therefore further protect the ruler’s harem.
Next, we have the church.
Many religions prohibit sex, make sex ‘wrong’, give it some name with a negative connotation like ‘fornication’, or in one way or another discourage it.
I once heard a wise man say, “Religions take everything that your DNA naturally wants to do to survive and procreate and makes it wrong.” Why? Well, if you’re busy fighting your internal drives, and you see God as the only way to cleanse yourself of these ‘bad’ thoughts, then you are a much better SHEEP.
If you want to get people to follow you, first confuse them, then convince them that you know the way to get them out of their confused state. Easy.
By: DeAngelo David
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The Secrets Of Women's Laughter. What She Is In The Bed?
To rate the legs, breasts, face and the other charms, almost all the men can do it. But to predict what is she like in the bed, this is more difficult task. Sexy beauty in the time of intimacy may be found a cold small fish, while outwardly rather colorless woman finds herself to be able to bewitch a man so that he forgets about everything in the world.
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Even in ancient times representatives of a strong sex tried to predict the sexual temperament of women. This information, agree is significant. Especially for the part of rational men who especially are not disposed to romantic love and do not love to buy a "pig in a poke". They have been trying to guess by the eyes, lips form, breasts, legs and feet…
But it turns out that a sexual temperament can be predicted by female laughter. Imagine what forces and time are saved! You've told anecdote - and everything is clear…
1. If women's laughter is like a clear bell and at the same time she throws back her head, she is usually a trustingly visionary, easily falls for compliments, but initially it is necessary to behave properly. She loves to engage in love and ready for experiments. Love with her is fairy and exciting.
2. Very decent laughter. Like would be open, but always within the framework of etiquette. Sometimes is accompanied by an elegant gesture: touches with fingertips the lobe of the ear, curls of hair, outer corners of eyes. Often she seems to be impregnable and cold.
She will remain this, if you make a rush to spur a horse, and begin to boost events. Such women do not resemble the quick cooking soup. Rather, it is a delicious dish for gourmets, you want to cook for hours and then slowly to revel in sophisticated (i.e. sex). Her passion blazes long slow fire.
3. Laughter is quiet and low, almost soundless. In doing so badly squints her eyes. Sometimes it seems that she only represents merry, but in fact closely watching you. This is usually strong, ambitious and suppressing personality. Regardless of your movement, she decides whether to go with you in bed or not. It is difficult to pick a partner for her, but however if she would be in bed, then her love is long and tirelessly. Her behavior in bed is heavily dependents on mood.
4. Laughs quietly, with restraint, often covering her mouth with palm. Such women are often shy, with a trolley full of complex, which prevents her to estimate at her true worth. And then what are you for? Tell her what a beautiful she is, good, kind and clever. If she will argue, do not listen to her and keep constraining. When she is in bed, do swear that she is the best mistress in the world. If you will force her to believe, this will be proved.
5. More likely giggles, with a hang of the head on one side. Most kind, responsive nature. Everybody loves her, and goes to talk for life to her, she does not refuse anybody. And she will understand you, but will not fall in the bed immediately. She should make her sure in your feelings, to understand whether she wants "this" and, most importantly, would she cause a pain to someone. That is she will think seven times before give up. Ideal for those who likes a subordinate partner, the delicate, tender, but with a fairly moderate temperament.
6. When she laughs, then wrinkles her nose. There is much of childish in her, seemingly naive and direct. Such a charming smiling blonde with plump cheeks. In fact, she is smart and canny. She loves advances, flowers, chocolate candy. Sex is preferred as the most trivial. Experiments are interesting for her purely in theory, and then she plays them in her fantasies, but very rarely in reality. This woman is an eternal girl for "dads" with a calm temperament and fanciers to care.
7.Laughs effusively while often touches the face with hand. The dream of erotomaniac. She is driven by inexhaustible curiosity and dreamy. Sex for her is a fascinating nice game. She does not hesitate long, can spontaneously give up in any place, she loves passionately. But do not forget about his Majesty condom.
8. Shouts with laughter, opens her mouth widely, so that you're not mistaken, that all of her 32 white teeth are not a porcelain dentures. Quite temperamental in bed, but you will be required the same. And God forbid, you will not justify her expectations.
By: Julia Pika
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Which Foodstuff Helps For Achieving Orgasm?
It is strange, but what we eat affects our sexuality, hormonal state of our bodies, energy level and the level of resistance to stress. There are special types of products to achieve orgasm.
Honey.
It is a real source of chemical elements such as boron, which facilitates the process of metabolism, as well as spending the estrogen hormone by organism. Some studies also show that boron increases the level of testosterone in the blood, which in it's turn is responsible for sexual desire and orgasm, both of men and women.
Vegetable oils.
Various vegetables, seeds and nuts are the source of vegetable fats which contain fatty vegetable acids, from which our body produces the cholesterol - the foundation of all sex hormones. Lack of cholesterol in the body harms of sexual activity and leads to loss of sexual interest and desire. When buying vegetable and nut oils, pay attention to the label.
Oils of cold pressing contain more nutrients than thermally processed, as well as vitamin E, needed to maintain hormone balance.
Oatmeal flakes.
With their help, you can increase the content of testosterone hormone in the blood. In order to increase your libido, you need to eat a dish of porridge and to drink 3 cups of oatmeal broth several times a week. The potion is preparing in the following way. A vessel of 1 litre capacity to fill a third with stems of oat, pour boiling water, close the lid tightly, to brew this at least 4 hours, then to strain liquid and place it in refrigerator. You may drink the broth both cold and warm.
Oysters.
They are believed a classical aphrodisiac. In fact, all seafood is rich in minerals, the integral parts of sexual hormones. In addition, minerals from seafood are better assimilated by our organism, as they are contained in them in the form of salts.
Algae.
Among seafood algae are allocated with a high content of iodine, which promotes the function of thyroid which is responsible for women's libido. True to feel a beneficial effect, you have to regularly use the algae for food during the month.
Chocolate.
It contains methylxanthine, which stimulate the transfer of nerve impulses, as well as create a sense of satisfaction and improve the mood.
Eggs.
They contain an enormous amount of vitamins from Group B, especially B6 and B5, which help to balance hormonal level and to maintain energy. The other source of vitamin B6 is a spinach, beer yeast, carrot, pears, sunflower seeds, fish, potatoes, milk, fresh vegetables.
Red meat, dark poultry, brown rice, bread with cereals, green vegetables.
These products are good sources of zinc, which in it's turn helps to reduce the content of hormone prolactin in the body. Currently excess of prolactin leads to sexual dysfunction.
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By: Julia Pika
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How To Become An Irresistible Seduction Magnet, Guaranteed
One of the most pressing questions concerning seduction I get from my clients and peers is,"How do I meet a pretty chic without losing face? What do I say when I meet her and how do I manage to get her to give me her number..."
These questions, it seems, are part of what keeps many men awake at night, terrified of the prospect of meeting a woman and seducing her as if it's a no holds-barred wrestling match with a nine foot tall one eyed giant in a steel cage.
How ironic, often we forget that women are human too, and regardless of one's exterior beauty, women, just like any member of society, have feelings and emotions and go through the same ordeal as any.
How sad then that, the most beautiful girls God has put on Planet Earth must go without the affections of a loving boyfriend, just because all men assume she's taken, or "it is impossible for her to be single?"
Instead, pretty chics are subjected to lewd advances from jerks and half drunks who have more courage of approaching them than the perfect guy has guts to master the courage, let alone the thought!
Suffering Succotash!!
In today's information rich and attention lacking environment, speed is of the utmost priority; it's as if everyone's a rabbit and in a super big rush to copulate with as many partners as possible in the shortest amount of time.
However, given the prospect that men are afraid of approaching pretty chics, copulation, I'm afraid, is only a frame of mind, not a physical endeavor!
That being said, how does one even begin to attract pretty women like a junkie is attracted to crystal meth?
You see, seduction is not an event, it's a process.
Let me clarify; it's like riding a bike or learning to play a musical instrument.
Seduction and attraction are a fine art that one must learn until they become a master.
When a master is at work, one cannot but stop to marvel at the shere genius of it all.
When Tiger Woods or Roger Federer execute Grand Slams in their respective sports or, as you would have it, Vanessa Mae strums her stradivarius, there is no accident to the reward and, as flawless as they both make it look, there's been sweat and tears that went into making them Masters in their field.
I must admit, I started dating at a very early age, 16 to be exact and, by the time I was 20, I had lost count in the number of older women I'd been with.
Unlike most seduction gurus who spent most of their 20s dateless and in front of the tv screen scratching their heads wondering how to date fine women, I had already progressed into other areas of interest beyond dating in my 20s.
I am not saying this to brag or anything to that effect, but it pains me to see so much information flying about the internet on seduction and how to become a master simply by reading a book when your mindset's not right!
I never!
If your mindset is that of failure due to past experiences with women, self esteem or other childhood misfortune that kids are always too eager to mete on another in the name of play or teasing, then no amount of reading will redeem you from the curse of failure.
I say this not as ridicule, but as a way to show you that, despite all your shortcomings, there's a way to get rid of that excess baggage and begin a new journey into the unchartered waters of dating!
For instance, and this is more the norm than the exeption, if you come from a broken home and all you know is ridicule and pain, if all you know is failure; never a word of encouragement, then chances are; each time you meet someone you have an emotional affirnity to, your past experiences come home to roost
full circle, and you exhibit those characteristics playing in your life all over again... it's like a rat on a wheel...the story keeps playing in your life ad infinitum.
Let me explain:
Sales professionals World-over attend sales seminars and couching classes when they hit slumps. It's because they realize that, to be masters in their professions, they need to horn their skills and break self imposed barriers that were not there in the first place.
When your mind is clear of emotional baggage and phobias, you have no barriers to break through; you only have opportunity to fulfill.
It's like when you receive an unexpected bonus check or you receive a well deserved pay increase.
Your gait changes the instant you see that check stub or bank balance.
When you walk into your local grocery store or supermarket...you couldn't care less what the World is thinking, because in that instant, you've attained the God consciousness.
Even if you've never approached a pretty lady before, chances are, you could approach anyone and make a fool of yourself a hundred times over...
Why?
Because your confidence levels are at an all time high; because you've suspended all your limiting beliefs, for the moment anyway, through your selfworth!
Ahh, the magic word; Self Worth!
Now, consider this flip side:
Ever been to a zoo and watched lions in captivity? How pitiful they look - the King of the Jungle, all the mojo stripped out.
Chances are, let that feline loose and..the results?
I bet you the results are the poor pussy will die of hunger, because it has lost its natural killer instincts.
Now, if you're a self confident young stud and have no qualms about approaching women, then good on you but, if you have issues from your past, and spend the majority of your waking moments biting your nails at the mere
thought of approaching pretty chics, chances are you need a coach, not a book
or some opening liners to meet women.
You see, women these days are darn smart; they can smell a con job a mile away and, unless your mindset is one of thinking like a champion, chances are you've bought one seduction ebook too many and are scratching your head, just wondering what it is you need to do to attract Alice from next door.
Remember that Nest egg investment commercial with a guy about to retire and he's in an elevator with a 200lb Gorilla offering him advice?
The punch line is, Don't listen to me, What would I know, I'm just a 2000lb Gorilla in the room with you...
Listen, don't listen, it's your free will.
Food for thought...
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